Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Harper's Story

It was all planned: Harper was to be born on January 21st by a scheduled c-section.  But little Sweet Pea had other plans.  My birthday was January 14th and that night my water broke (slowly).  I really didn't know my water broke until the morning when I was getting ready for work.  I got in the shower, did my makeup and my hair and well, the leaking just wouldn't stop.  So after a call to my OB, off Matt and I were to the hospital at 6:45am.  Here I am right before leaving for the hospital. :)
My water just broke!

At 9:13am Miss Harper Carmen Emery was born weighing in at 7 lbs 9 ozs and at 19 inches long.  She was pink and beautiful.  From the OR we went to the recovery room where we held Miss Harper and started the bonding experience.  Since she came early Matt and I were alone; no family was there.  So pics were taken by each other, see below:
Matt is ready for the OR.

Getting ready for the c-section.




But after about two hours, one of the nurses came up to me and Harper and asked to finish their assessment.  They checked her oxygen saturation levels and found them to be in the 60% range which is not good.  They should be in the 80-90%.  Then I heard the words that no parent wants to hear when then just had a baby, "GET THE DOCTOR STAT!" by a nurse.  Then we heard words from the nurse of a heart murmur and low levels, etc.  Next thing I knew they were rushing Harper to another room where Matt went with her.  They come back and told us that Harper has a heart condition and they need to take her to Rady's Children's Hospital to be seen by the pediatric cardiologist.  Mind you I was at Scripps Memorial Hospital.  So they took my newborn by ambulance to another hospital for, at this moment, some unknown problem with her heart.  Matt left Scripps and headed to Rady's to be with Harper.  To add more drama to the situation, I had a very bad reaction to the anathesia.  My blood pressure was too low, I was shaking and dry heaving for the next 12 hours.  Fun times.

So after being taken to Rady's, Harper was diagnosed with Pulmonary Atresia.  We had no idea what that meant.  We now know all too much about it.  Pulmonary Atresia affects 1 in 10,000 babies.  The basic explanation is that her pulmonary valve was barely open, so she was not getting enough oxygen rich blood through her system.  Not good, but the pediatric surgeons at Rady's thought they could fix it. 

So the next day she had heart surgery where they used a catheter through the umbilical cord to blow up a balloon to expand her pulmonary valve.  We were all hoping that it would do the trick, but it was not enough. She had another surgery the next day where they again used a catheter to go through her femoral artery in her groin to insert a tiny stent in her PDA valve (in another area of her heart). 

Poor Harper is a tough little cookie!  After the second surgery she started doing better each day.  Her improvement was amazing to watch.  It seemed like each day the doctors and nurses removed one more wire or tube from Harper.  They removed the ventilator and she was able to breath on her own and get enough oxygen.  Matt spent almost every minute with Harper since she left Scripps.  I was discharged on January 19th and joined Matt at Rady's.  Luckily the hospital had a Ronald McDonald house so we were able to stay across the street from where Harper was which was surreal for me since I have volunteered in the past with this nonprofit but instead of dishing out food I was the one receiving the hot meal.  Either me or Matt stayed with her every night.  She got better and better as the days went on and thankfully she came home on the 24th, after 10 days in the Cardiac ICU.





So what now?  Well, there is still a lot of uncertainty.  Her cardiologist thinks she will make a full recovery, but there are still a lot of unknowns.  The side effect of her condition is that her right ventricle is under developed.  The key thing her cardiologist will be tracking in the coming months and years is the size of her right ventricle.  Harper may have to have another heart procedure in the future.  We just don't know.  She will not be an Olympic athlete but otherwise she should live a normal life.  She has been through so much already that we know she is one strong little lady.  Bringing her home was the best day ever.  She has put on over a pound since birth and is a great baby.  We love her more than words could describe. 

We even had our newborn photo session and although she pooped twice and peed once all over the photographers blankets, the pictures turned out great! 




So we are adjusting to having Harper home and getting to know what our new normal is right now.  Riley has done great with baby Harper.  She loves her and attempts to help out which is super cute. 


I also want to say a huge THANK YOU to our friends and family that knew what was going on and were there for both Matt and I.  The texts and phone calls meant so much and to those that visited me in the hospital meant the world to me.  When things like this happen it really shows you who will be there for you and how truly blessed we are to have such a great support group.  Words cannot express how much we love you. 


Friday, November 1, 2013

A Splendid September/October

September/October was filled with so many wonderful visitors and events.  We had so much fun with Mike Sakraida (Riley's Godfather), Nick Schiavi, the Barfield Family, and my Mom visiting us!  Riley was quite smitten with Mike.  She just thought he was the coolest person ever playing Elmo puppet with her and making her laugh.  We also showed Mike the very best of San Diego which included the Mt. Soledad Memorial and some great breweries in town.  It was a beer fest Emery style which Matt had to be the main tour guide since I cannot partake in the adult beverages at this time. 








Then we had Nick come in for the weekend and it was great to see him out this way again. 



Donna, Tyler, Brooks and Macy came in town for the weekend and we had so much fun!  Riley got a bit sick so she wasn't able to hang out as much but recovered towards the end of their trip which made for some great photos. 







Halloween is a HUGE deal in our neighborhood so we really had to step it up.  My mom came into town because Halloween is one of her favorite events and her trip did not disappoint!  Not only did we have a good group come over for some drinks and food but we also quite the crew of trick-or-treaters with us.  Riley was Boots from Dora the Explorer (her favorite show right now) and it was the cutest costume.  PLUS there was a haunted house a few houses down from us which I heard was incredible.  I did not go but Matt and everyone else said it was insane. 


Bobby and Ellie

Frankie and Roman







Riley's PreSchool Class all dressed up and adorable

Her reward after a long day

I'm currently 28 weeks now and feeling every kick and jab.  She is a feisty one that likes to act up at night so far (lets hope that changes once she out)!

Also, we have started potty training with Riley.  It's has its ups and downs and we just hope by the time the new baby arrives she will be out of diapers!  


Thursday, September 12, 2013

Where My Girls At?

What's the latest in the Emery household?  Well, baby #2 is another girl!  Matt will have his hands full with all girls including Hershey!  We are very excited for Riley to have a baby sister.  She is getting the concept of "baby in my tummy" and now points at other womens in public and says baby in tummy too.  Very cute.  She keeps saying boy though despite us many times saying its a girl.  I have had two separate sonograms and have confirmed that it is in fact a girl. 

To get Riley ready for school she got her first haircut!  Her hair was getting pretty long so we just trimmed it up so she would stop putting it in her mouth.  She did really well; no issues at all.



Riley started pre-school at Gillispie and we are so happy for her!  She was so excited to show off her new backpack and see the class again.  She only goes twice a week for 4 hours but she is loving it.  The school is amazing and we are so fortunate to be able to have her go there.
 





She is expressing her independence lately, though.  I guess that comes with the terrible two's.  She may favor Matt in temperament, but every once in a while a bit of Katie comes out! But we take all the good with a little bad once in a while in stride.  She rarely brings out the "Katie" side and who am I to really judge, right?  I basically had the terrible two's for 6 years (just ask my mom...or better yet...don't...you may change your opinion of me afterward)! 

Cathy came to visit last week which was super fun!  She got a lot of Riley time and both had a blast finger painting and coloring. 

We also got the sitters lined up and went out for some adult time where we showed Cathy how San Diego loves their micro brews.  Plus we caught a Padres game (only stayed for 3 innings) for a bit which was fun as well.  We also went to the San Diego Zoo and Riley loved it.  She really wanted to see the hippos for some reason.  It's amazing how close you can get to the animals there. 



I'm currently 20 weeks along and things are going very smoothly.  This pregnancy has been a bit easier and most of the time I'm not feeling pregnant until I look in a mirror and see the bump.  We can't wait to meet our new baby girl and I can't wait to see Riley in her new role as big sister.  So fun!